Little Victories

April 27, 2020
Canadian artist Roy’s graphic memoir of raising a son with autism is a spirited journey through parenthood that occasionally settles for easy answers. The fallout is immediate when Oliver, the son of Mark (as Roy names himself here) and Chloe, is diagnosed as autistic. Roy separates from Chloe, distrusts the guidelines and teaching tools provided by social workers, and finds himself unable to give up on the son he’d thought he’d raise (he asks his toddler son, “Are you going to have a girlfriend, kids? A life?”). It is, as a friend calls it, his “rock bottom”—but in time, he learns to bond with Oliver through soccer, street hockey, and fishing. Roy’s comical cartooning is a joy to behold, especially its imaginative flourishes, as when calming a tantrum is portrayed as a sparring match between a cub and a full-grown tiger. But Roy’s portrayal of Oliver’s autism as something he should, as he says, “overcome” instead of “learn to live with” invites questions Mark is unwilling to answer. Being significantly impacted by disability is not an option for Oliver, in Mark’s view—wheelchairs and classmates with “quite pronounced” disabilities are invoked as utterly unacceptable futures. This is a tender, uplifting story of father and son bonding, but an unfulfilling work of disability literature.

May 7, 2021

In this insightful memoir, Roy (Graines de Bandits) reveals his struggle to understand and connect with his autistic son Oliver. The author is devastated by Oliver's diagnosis, and his anguish and anxiety over Oliver's uncertain future creates a rift between him and his wife, Chloe, leading to their separation. Caring for Oliver as a single parent proves difficult, but Yvon is determined to help his son develop the skills he'll need to eventually achieve independence. He relies on a miscellany of creative games and techniques--silly, made-up songs to confront Oliver's difficulty with abstract thought; rearranging the furniture each night, to help Oliver overcome his reliance on routine; and teaching him to recite an overly mannered and polite greeting upon meeting someone, to assure that Oliver won't be ignored. As Oliver develops, Yvon comes to realize how deeply he projects his own fears onto his son and gains a deeper understanding of autism that creates a deep bond between the two. VERDICT This charming depiction of a father's quest to understand his son's needs arrives having already garnered multiple awards, including the Best Biography Award from the Disability Fund and Society.--Tom Batten, Grafton, VA

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